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Will thee or won't thee, it's all the same
by Jonathan Rosenblum
Jerusalem Post
May 26, 2000
What a pity that the word Judaism has not been copyrighted. Had it been, the Reform movement... would never have been able to call itself Reform Judaism... Our movement simply is not, and should not be called, Judaism." Made by an Orthodox Jew, that statement would hardly raise an eyebrow. But in this case the author is Robert Lappin, a Boston-area Jewish philanthropist and "long-time member and supporter" of the Reform movement. Lappin was responding to the Reform movement's decision on patrilineal descent and its sanctioning of Reform clergy to officiate at intermarriages and same-sex ceremonies. Lappin is certainly right that it would be hard to imagine a sharper break with Jewish law than sanctification of same-sex unions. Here the traditional excuse - "It's all a matter of rabbinic interpretation" - cannot be trotted out. The Torah explicitly prohibits sexual relations between two males. A Jew is required to give up his life rather that engage in such relations, even under compulsion. The only other sins viewed with comparable severity are murder and idolatry. Even more to the point, the Midrash attributes the decree of destruction on the generation of the Flood to their writing out marriage contracts between same-sex partners. In one sense, the resolution of the Central Conference of American Rabbis did little more than confirm existing Reform practice, which grants each clergyman almost unfettered autonomy. Many Reform rabbis already officiated at such ceremonies. In Baltimore last year, the senior clergyman of a Reform temple "sanctified" the relationship of the junior rabbi and his male partner. Reform clergy in Israel also officiate at such ceremonies, though the local Reform movement attempts to play that down. In fact, the most vociferously voiced argument against the CCAR resolution was that it would hurt the credibility of the Reform movement in Israel. Hardly a profound statement of religious belief. The real question raised by the Reform decision on same-sex relationships is not whether Reform can be called Judaism, but in what sense can it be described as a religion. The very same resolution that affirmed that "holiness may be present in committed same-gender relationships" also supported the decision of those rabbis who will not officiate at same-gender ceremonies. Will thee or won't thee, it's all the same as far as the movement is concerned. A religion which treats as equally valid the decision to ignore an explicit biblical verse and the opposite decision to heed the verse lacks both content and intellectual coherence. The Torah's overriding message, as well as that of all serious monotheistic faiths - is that God created the world with a specific purpose. To treat mutually exclusive actions as equally valid makes mockery of the idea that God demands anything of man. By elevating individual autonomy to its supreme value, Reform has left every man as the creator of his own religion. Sincerity is the measure of all things; as long as we are sincere, God is happy with us. Antinomianism permeates the Reform movement on every issue. Thus, the co-chairman of the Reform movement's committee on brit mila had this to say about the first commandment given to Abraham and his descendants: "There are people who find [brit mila] a profoundly meaningful way of connecting with the Jewish people and there are those who don't... People have to fulfill their inner sense." AS A consequence of its treatment of all views as equally valid, Reform is congenitally incapable of formulating standards. A recent Reform responsa, for instance, deals with conversions performed by "rabbis of Humanistic Judaism." The fundamental belief of Humanistic Judaism is that there is no God. (A Humanistic clergywoman was defrocked not so long ago by the movement for daring to express her belief in God.) Yet the author of the responsa accepts the Humanistic converts on the grounds that "we have no reason to doubt the Jewishness or the Judaic sincerity of those who practice [Humanistic Judaism]." Once again, sincerity trumps all. Yossi Beilin's call for secular conversion, whereby anyone can become a Jew by expressing his identification with the Jewish people, is thus largely besides the point. The difference between waking up and proclaiming, "Hallelujah, I'm a Jew," and finding three bearers of certificates stamped "rabbi" to make the same proclamation, is not great. Today anyone in need of a conversion, for whatever reason, can find a rabbi to provide the requisite certificate; often by doing nothing more than looking in the phone book for those hawking their conversion services. Standardless conversions based on the whim of individual clergymen help destroy the last remaining basis of Jewish unity by rendering us unable to even agree about who is a Jew. But even that blow pales by comparison to Reform's decision to redefine the Jewishness of the offspring of mixed marriages. That decision not only expanded the definition of Jew to include millions not recognized as such by Halacha because their mother is not Jewish, but also potentially excluded from the Jewish people millions of other children whose mothers are Jewish but who don't participate in appropriate identification ceremonies. The Reform movement will never agree to Lappin's description of all those who are halachicly Jewish as one people with two religions. If it did so, Reform could no longer lay claim to Jewish religious authority and the Supreme Court would no longer be able to use it as its agent for redefining Judaism and Jewishness.
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